Find your way. back. to each other.

Being in relationship with someone you love will be one of the biggest challenges you’ll face in THIS lifetime.  Most of us have had very little preparation for this endeavor and often end up depending heavily on the romantic love and attraction that drew us together in the first place, to carry us through.  This can actually work for a while, dopamine's a powerful adhesive.  When the heat of attraction and novelty begins to wane, the sweetness and comfort of familiarity brings us the safety and belonging we all long for.  It's a sweet spot that left untended can often lead to a numbing routine.  Once the novelty has worn off, other demands may begin to eclipse our desire for connection.  When our needs are no longer being met we often become distant and resentful.  Over time you may begin to notice how lonely you feel, just inches away from the person you love the most.  Couples often wonder out loud, how did we get here, when did this happen?   

These questions are your wake up if you’re ready to heed the call.  Like most things in life, the more we prepare, the better equipped we are to face with challenges that arise.  Of course we can’t always predict how things will go in relationships and sometimes the hurt we’ve endured makes the problems we’re facing seem insurmountable.  But if you’re willing to come to the table to explore, you just might begin to reconnect to what matters most to you both and find your way back to each other.  This therapist makes house calls, are you ready for a re.set?